Saturday, July 26, 2008

Relationship Riches

This morning, I was at my mom's house and grabbed some boxes from my old closet that I have been meaning to go through and clean out. Once I got home, I spent the afternoon sorting through them. It made me realize how crazy blessed I have been with getting to know some really amazing people along the way.

That has been the theme of my life lately: realizing the richness of relationship.

For years, my mom has bugged my Grandpa to write down some stories of his life in journals. Surprisingly, a couple months or so ago, he handed my mom a few notebooks. He had actually been writing down stories for years and no one knew. I read through them all twice. And each time, I was really taken aback with for one, the fact that my Grandpa is still alive (he served in a few wars and has insane stories from them), and two, how I wish that I would have been aware of the importance of listening to people and getting to know them when I was younger. When I went to the Philippines, I remember my Grandpa asking me a few times "Will you get to see such and such place?" or "Make sure you go to this place if you can." At the time, I didn't get it. No big deal. My Grandpa's just a history buff. I ignored all of it and didn't make one ounce of effort to go to any of the places he mentioned. Reading his journals, I finally got it. Now I know why those places are special and what they mean. And I wish I would have listened. To know that I was minutes from some of the places he mentioned, and didn't just go makes me kick myself. I was so close. I wish I had a photo to show my Grandpa and say "See, here I am at the same place you were fifty years ago." To be able to show that I listened, that I get it, that I understand a part of his past and where he comes from, and that we have this bond of knowing this place...but I don't because I just didn't listen. I didn't take the time to find out why he kept mentioning these places. I passed them off as irrelevant to me. Which, I'm sure is partially because I was 18, and let's face it, teenagers have stupid attitude. None the less, if only I would have known. And so now I tell myself not to let that mistake happen again. That when someone speaks, I need to listen.

My Grandma (other side now, my Dad's mom) was up cat-sitting while my Dad and step-mom were on vacation, so Jesse and I asked her if she wanted to meet up for dinner one evening, and when we got to talking, I realized that I didn't even know what town she grew up in. I didn't know anything about where she came from and what made her who she is, so I asked. And it was probably some of the best conversation I've ever had with my Grandma. And I realized, once again, what valuable relationships I have in my life right now that I just normally pass off.

And I wondered...what would life be like now if I had been paying attention all those years before? I don't want to miss out anymore. Not just with grandparents, but pretty much everyone in my life.

So back to how I started this rant...the boxes from my old closet. Mostly, the boxes had photos and letters in them. Some made me laugh. Some made me cry, and honestly, some made me want to give them dirty looks and say "f*ck you". None the less, what stood out most to me was that in many cases, I didn't know what I had. I didn't realize how very blessed and special it was that people let me into their lives...and a lot of people let me in. And I wish I would have cherished it more. One great thing about travel is that I met a lot of amazing people. The bad thing about travel is that it's intense, and then it's over. Most of the people in my "boxes", I no longer keep in touch with, but I finally realize how rich my life is that I got to see a glimpse into their hearts, even if only for a short time. There's Amy, who actually believed I was the patient, forgiving and loving one during our friendship, when it was actually quite the contrary. There's Dustin, who had a way of simultaneously freaking me out and making me feel nothing but warmth in my heart. There's Erik, who trusted me enough to tell me that he sometimes just wanted to die. There's another Eric who always believed in my innocence and seemed to want to protect me. There's Elizabeth who wanted to be around me and hang out even when I was incredibly rude and standoffish. Curtis, who had x-ray vision for seeing my every hidden evil motive that I would never admit to, yet still stayed my friend anyway. John, who watched me go from being a kid to venturing out on my own for the first time; his presence gave me courage. Angie, who taught me that who I am is perfectly okay, even though it's far from perfect. What strikes me the most though, is that I just don't get why these people were so good to me...why they trusted me with a part of themselves. I certainly didn't deserve it. But I'm thankful. I have this long, rich list of people who loved me into being who I am.

Today, I'm lucky that my list is dominated by Jesse, who simply feels like home; the best friend I could ever walk through life with.

So for everyone I've ever called friend, thank you.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

DIY Alternative Energy Sources


Today, I baked cookies on the dashboard of our SUV. I have been wanting to try this for quite some time, but it has been a relatively cool summer, and I was waiting for it to get hot enough. Besides neighbors thinking that you may have possibly lost your mind, it only has positives: doesn't heat up your house in the summer, it's free, it makes your car smell really yummy, and I'm pretty sure you would have a really hard time burning the cookies and ruining your efforts.

A few things that I have learned while researching/trying it out for myself:

-Park your car so that the dashboard gets full sun.

-Make sure you put a towel on the dashboard to protect it from the hot metal pan.

-The outside temperature needs to be at least 95 degrees, which should get the inside of the car to about 200 degrees.

-I think this works best with firm doughs. Also, best to roll your dough into a log, chill it, and slice into even thickness. I don't think the drop method would work so well.

-Baking time will most likely be between 2 and 3 hours, so don't start this if you need to run errands or something.

-When checking the cookies throughout the process, try not to open the doors; just look through the windsheild so that you aren't constantly letting heat out.

-When done, the cookies won't look the same as cookies done in a regular oven. The sugar doesn't carmalize the same way that it does in an oven, so you won't see any browning. Which means, when they look set and you are pretty sure they are done, you will have to open the door to check. (Do it fast.) If they aren't done, you'll probably need to give them another 15-30 minutes and then recheck, repeating the process until they are done.

This is what they looked like when they were done. You can see how they still look kind of like dough even though they are all the way baked. I used parchment paper and when I could pull a cookie off without it sticking, then I knew they were done because raw dough will still stick.


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The next thing I want to try is cooking in a homemade solar oven made from a car sun shield. What's good about this is that it doesn't even have to be that hot outside. This apparently works even in the low 70's! I know, I'm approaching alpha geek status, but keep reading, because this gets even better -

The coolest thing EVER about these solar ovens is that this woman named Rachel Andres came up with the most brilliant idea ever to teach Darfuri women how to construct solar ovens. Doesn't sound like a big deal, but after going through horror in their villages the women who are able to escape are forced to move into refugee camps. In order to cook food there, they have to leave the camp to go looking for firewood. The problem is, it is extremely dangerous to leave the camp, and they are once again exposing themselves to high risk of being raped and tortured in the bush. So, with solar ovens, it means they don't need to go looking for wood outside the camp so much. I'm telling you, simple brilliance is going to save the world.

Back to the shallow now, imagine what these cooking methods could do to revolutionize the camping food experience. Forget Eat-More bars, how 'bout some fresh baked cookies when you return from your hike?

Sunflowers Will Stay After All

My sunflowers out front are looking pretty leggy and just generally unkept. I finally decided I was just going to pull them all up.... until one day Jesse and I were sitting in the living room and saw this pretty bird eating from the flower.





(Photos courtesy of Jesse. I don't know how he managed to get such good shots, considering he was shooting through an Abe-slobbered window.)

Running Total: Garden Savings Update

Adding:
2 lbs green beans = 4.78
1 lb strawberries = 4.99

Total Garden Value As of Today = 116.38

Friday, July 18, 2008

Bling, Bling, One Expensive Ding

Warning: Full post solely about my dog's wiener.

Abe's wiener is very expensive. Jesse and I call it his "gold member". Unfortunately, a month or so ago, we noticed some changes that made us call the vet because we were worried that he had an infection in his groin area. We were right. We got antibiotics and urine cultures and all kinds of fun stuff at the vet. He got better while on the antibiotics, but then it came back within a couple days, so the vet gave us more antibiotics (in a lower dose??). We thought it was weird to get a lower dose if the first round didn't work, but we took their advice. After all, they have the letters behind their name and we don't. (This was a new vet that we were trying out.) So, round 2 of antibiotics, and it still didn't clear it up. So, we fired that vet because I hadn't been overly impressed when talking with her the first time we took Abe, and then when they gave him a lower dosage for round two, it just seemed odd. So, we got a new vet, on the recommendation of a neighbor. This vet agreed that it is very odd to lower the dosage like that if the first round didn't clear it up. In fact, she said probably the reason the antibiotic didn't work the first time was because the original dosage was too small for a dog Abe's size. So, anyway, now we have round 3 of antibiotics, plus this ointment. And, she took samples of stuff other than urine to send out to the lab, so we should know more about what exactly this infection thing is being caused by early next week. Too bad we didn't go to this vet first. It would have saved not only a lot of money, but also a lot of nights of brainstorming more creative ways to hide pills in food. (Abe is a smart cookie and a very good pill finder - my best creation thus far has been a ham and cheese melt...the melty keeps the pill stuck to the food so he can't spit it out without spitting out the yummy stuff too.) Hopefully we can get it fully cleared up. I feel bad for my big boy. I don't think it bothers him terribly, but sometimes he tries to itch it, but since he's so old, he can't bend and reach it very easily, so he struggles. I just want him to feel good and have his gold member all nice and clean and healthy. Hopefully that will be happening very soon. On another note, this vet was the first vet that we've ever been to with Abe (and we've been to quite a few between our moves) who took a shot at guessing his age. She said that you can often get a pretty good/accurate guess by looking at their eyes because they change colors/get cloudy with age. So, she said she thinks Abe is 12. I'd say that's about right. In my mind, I had the feeling he was 13, so I suppose he must be somewhere around there.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Darfur

The International Criminal Court has requested a warrant for the arrest of Omar al-Bashir (Sudan's president). It's charging him with genocide and crimes against humanity. In a way, it's a good thing, but in a way, it's a really risky thing because it's causing things to come to a climax. The UN peacekeepers and other aid workers are being forced to pull out of the region, beyond the most bare bones staff because they anticipate a lot of violence. The Sudanese government, of course, says they promise not to retaliate on any aid workers, but they also claim that they aren't guilty of genocide. At this point, it could go either way with positive progress, or mount into an even more catastrophic scale. It will take a few months for the warrant to be approved. (Assuming it gets approved.) In the meantime, who knows if it is a step toward peace or more violence....depends how the Sudanese government reacts. Read more here and you can take action here.

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Skin Deep Cosmetic Safety Database

I just stumbled across a really cool website. (Well, cool to me at least.) It's a cosmetic safety database. You can search any product that you want (I think they have about 25,000 in the database) and it will pull up lots of good info. For example, you can see if the company does animal testing. You can also see if the ingredients in the product are linked to anything bad (like cancer or allergies), and then you can also see how it ranks compared to other products. For example, I randomly typed in "Covergirl", which pulled up a big list, so I clicked on the first product (which was a mascara). I can see on that page that Covergirl does animal testing, and 95% of other mascaras have lower health risks than this particular Covergirl mascara, along with lots of other good info specific to that mascara product. Cool! I am going to spend some time looking up the products I use and see how they rank. Of course, take it with a grain of salt, because there is hardly any product these days that isn't linked to something hazardous, or at the very least, is "possibly linked". But, still, you can get a general idea of which products are the worse and which you are probably okay using.

Edit: To get the best feature of the site (in my opinion), click here. You can search for products here with your specific requirements. Everything from ingredients, to possible hazards, to animal testing.

Running Total: Garden Savings Update

I'm adding.

-2lbs green beans (with lots more on the way!) at 2.39/lb = 4.78
-3 more bunches kolhrabi = 5.25
-Can't find a price online for basil, so I'll use the same price that the oregno was, 2.79 for .66 oz. It's just filling out, so I'll probably have more to add, but for now, let's say 3 oz. = 12.68

Total Garden Value As of Today = 106.61

Sunday, July 13, 2008

One Happy Thing, One Funny/Odd Thing, and One Cute Thing

I am in a very good mood today because this morning I called and paid off our vacation. Yippie! It's 59 days away and I can hardly wait. September should be a happy month, because my brother gets married, so there will be wedding hoop la and then less than a week after that, we leave for vacation. That is good stuff.

Other good stuff - I found sandals! I decided go with Columbia Sun Trax. I probably looked at hundreds of sandals online and in stores. Silly. But, my high maintenance feet are finally satisfied. Anyway, I was wearing the sandals today, which made me even more excited for vacation, because the whole reason I was searching for new sandals was for vacation.



Anyway, since I got new sandals and have also gotten some new clothes over the past couple months, I decided that I should give our closet a serious purge. I often go through the closet to look for stuff to get rid of, but usually I am very nice about it. This time, I decided that if I haven't worn it during the last year, or if I wore it, but felt uncomfortable/self conscious/stupid in it, then it also needs to go. That part was harder because some of the stuff I have is very nice, but I just never wear it because I don't feel nice in it. Anyway, I had just started on that when Jesse got home, and he decided that he should also give his side of the closet a good purge. So, he joined me. He looked really funny while doing this, because he was only wearing his boxers, and then he decided to put on one of my hats...and he was serious the whole time. Not like he was making jokes about it. He just went about his business as if he was wearing something normal...like clothes...and a hat made for men. Anyway, I found the scene to be very peculiar and funny, so I took a picture. (No worries, all you see is shoulders up!) He totally reminded me of some beatnik poet or something.



After the purging, we spent most of the day outside. It's unusually cool for July. Horton kept trying to find a place by us, but our chairs were on the rocks. He would lay down and then get back up, trying a new spot on the rocks, but just couldn't get comfy. So, I pulled a cushion off one of the chairs, and he quickly caught on to what I was doing and found a very nice spot for himself. And so of course, I took a picture, just in case anyone who reads my blog has not yet figured out that I think I have the two cutest dogs in the whole wide world.

Friday, July 11, 2008

Getting All Practical Now That I've Ditched Art Again.

So, now that I'm back to psychology, and graduation is looming nearer...

If I want to go to grad school, I've got to get my stuff together this fall to meet application deadlines and what not. I'm looking into a couple research internships right now and studying for the GRE. I'm skeptical about it all. There are really only two programs that I am interested in applying for, and one of them accepts less than 5% of applicants. I'm not sure what the odds are for the other program. Nonetheless, it's competitive. If I can't find my way into some research experience this fall, then I may not even bother applying. I'm pretty sure that without that piece, I would be wasting my time. So, for now, I'm anxiously awaiting follow-up e-mails and what not to see whether or not the research stuff can work out. I probably won't know for a couple weeks yet.

I think I'm pretty okay no matter how it all pans out. After all, there are also a lot of positives to not going to grad school and just working. And a PhD is a pretty heavy investment in career. I'm not sure what that would mean for us in terms of family and kids. So I guess really, I'd be super excited if grad school worked out, but in some ways, I suppose I'd be relieved if it doesn't. So, either way comes with some positive emotions.

Anyway, in case you're wondering what programs I am looking at - one is clinical psych with a health emphasis and the other is just straight up sociology.

For now though, I don't even know for sure that I am applying. I wait.

Getting All Philosophical About Art Again.

So for those who don't know, I changed my major back to psychology. Basically
1) I'll be done way faster, which means 2) I'll borrow less money and 3) I like art, but half the time when I am doing assignments and projects, I don't see it as art; it's just completing a task. As one of my instructors put it to me (with a sigh) "that's just the nature of art school" - so I decided to (once again) stop. I think hope, that this time, I won't worry about what I left behind. There was always that "what if" surrounding my decision to leave the art institute. Now, I can say that while I like making art, wading through the politics of it is simply not worth it enough for me.

A friend in Colorado, after telling him that I had quit the institute, said to me something along the lines of, "it's better that you got out before it killed that in you" - that being the innocence of it all...thinking that you can actually just make art for art's sake....that technical skills and talent matter... He had graduated from an art institute, and it was years before he was able to find the artist in him again - in fact, I believe he still is recovering it and it's somehow older, more skeptical than it used to be. I've found that to be true of many art institute graduates that I know.

It reminds me of my faith journey where you start out so innocent. Somewhere along the line though, you get knocked around and realize that things aren't as you believed, and you learn to toughen up. Then, once you realize how hard you are, though you do your best to become soft again, you know you'll never go back to that place where you really believe in the simplicity and purity of it all.

So then, art can be the one area of my life where I am fine to stay a child.

Tuesday, July 08, 2008

Running Total: Garden Savings

Here's my geeky project of the summer.

I decided I am going to keep a running total of the "worth" of my gardens. I'm going to keep track on here, because otherwise, I know I'll lose whatever piece of paper I start writing it on.

Here are my rules: If the item is offered in the organic section of the grocery store, I am using that price since I do the gardens organically and that is the most comparable product. If they don't carry the organic version, then I will just use whatever price the regular version is. I am pulling the prices off the website of the grocery store that we used to shop at in Colorado, so there is probably some slight variation for location, but overall, the pricing there is pretty similar to the midwest as far as produce.

I'll subtract all of my costs from the get-go because they are fixed, so I know most of them now. Any seeds/plants not listed, I got starts or seeds from various friends/family, so they were free. And technically, I bought most of this stuff with a gift card that I got for my birthday, so I suppose in that way, it was all free.

sugar snap seeds = 1.07

bibb lettuce seeds = 2.19

romaine seeds = 2.19

spinach seeds = 1.07

oregano seeds = 1.07

strawberry plants = 9.99

green bean seeds = 1.07

kohlrabi seeds = 1.97

manure/soil admendments = 16.00 (high I think, because I compost, so we don't buy much)

cost of watering gardens for 20 weeks = $25.00?? (I think that is a pretty high estimate also)

I also spend a lot of time out there, but I'm not factoring that as a cost, because to me, it's free entertainment/exercise and would lean more on the profit side.

Total Costs = 61.62



Now, so far what I have harvested:

6 lbs of sugar snap peas at 4.99/lb = 29.94

1 lb. of strawberries = 4.99

Bibb lettuce at 1.99/bunch = 23.88

Romaine lettuce at 2.29/bunch = 27.48

Spinach, we probably ate 4 bunches fresh at 1.99/bunch and I froze 10 bags at 1.29 for 10 oz. frozen spinach (off brand price because that is what I would buy) = 20.86

Fresh Chives, .66 oz at 2.79. I probably have at least 3-4 oz. = 8.45

Fresh oregano, .66 oz. at 2.79 and I have a TON of oregano = 21.14

Can't find a price on lemon balm, so I'll exclude that.

Kolhrabi 5 bunches at 1.75/bunch = 8.75


Total value of produce as of today = 145.49


Total Garden Value As of Today = 83.90

Still to add - green beans, more strawberries, tomatoes, basil...and whatever I decide to put in for fall crops.

Not a bad start to the summer.

Saturday, July 05, 2008

More Pictures

It has been a photo extravaganza lately on here! Might as well keep it going with some photos from yesterday when I was up at my Grandpa's house celebrating both his birthday and Independence Day.

The birthday boy himself keeping an eye on the grill. He was wearing an apron that said "Grill Sergeant". (Funny if you know him.)


Two of my cousins getting creative with duct tape and firecrackers. I'm telling you, every year, I am amazed that everyone walks away with their eyebrows fully intact and we have no trips to the ER. When we were kids, I thought we were pretty creative with the firecrackers and tin cans, but these days, things have evolved way past tin cans.


They were putting their homemade "bombs" in the wheelbarrow and then lighting them. My Grandpa was down there wearing his headphone ear thingies just like the ones they wear out on the tarmac. I thought that was pretty funny.


Me, my mom, and my almost sister-in-law. I took a bunch of self-photos because every time I hand this little camera to someone else, they seem to get confused. It's older, so you still have to actually look through the viewfinder instead of seeing where you are shooting display on the screen, and people don't seem to get the concept of viewfinders that you actually put your eye to anymore. It ends up taking a while just to get one photo, so I figured it's easier to just squeeze into the shot and shoot them myself.



My brother and I.


When I got home, Jesse had just woken up from a nap. We kept retaking this photo, thinking he would look normal in the next one, but he just looked drugged in all of them. It makes me laugh.

Anyway, we debated about what to do for the evening, and decided to just chill out, so I ran to the store to get stuff for salsa and gauc, and picked up Charlie Wilson's War from Redbox (pretty good, and quite a timely commentary for present day). We watched that and then took the dogs for a walk. We ended up chatting with a lady down the street for a while, and found out that her vet gives her Xanax to give to her dog on the 4th. We are now thinking that may be worth a shot to give to Abe before thunderstorms. The doggie dosage is really high compared to humans though, so I'm a bit nervous about it. I think we may ease him into it slowly. In any case, after that, we went down to the park and I rode my bike while Jesse rollerbladed. The park was pretty empty, which was nice because usually the path is busy. We even saw a doe, who was quite intent on munching her grass while watching us. When we got home, Horton was a bit nervous from the noise and lights, so he stuck very close to us, and Abe panted and paced to make sure that we knew something was going on. Today, they are both very happy boys now that it's all over.

Thursday, July 03, 2008

Some Photos

Jesse's mom has been here the last couple days. Here are a few photos...

The evening she got in, we grilled out pizza and my mom came down for a visit. The dogs enjoyed hanging out with us in the backyard.


Today, she made us roll kuchen. Mmmmm....


Jesse did a nice job frying them...


and was very kind when I asked him to turn on the fan so that the grease didn't fill the air....


He also did an excellent job eating them.


And a couple photos just because...

Monday, June 30, 2008

Dusting off my soap box...

I didn't go to church over the weekend, or any weekend recently for that matter, but none the less, I have a sermon! Now excuse me as I climb my soapbox... =)

For the summer, our small group is rotating leaders and topics. Jesse and I decided that for our week, we want to speak on Darfur. In preparing for it, I ordered a DVD off the website, Save Darfur. I get updates from this site often and it's a great resource for learning about the situation, as well as ideas for action. Definitely check it out, and even better, sign a petition there and then sign up for their e-mail updates that will let you know about other news regarding Darfur and further ideas of action that you can take.

In any case, the DVD is quite well done. It breeches the subject by looking at three major world religions - Christianity, Judaism, and Islam, and what their scriptures say about it. There were a number of quotes on the DVD that really struck me, that I thought I'd share here.

The great religions differ in the way they understand the relationship between humans and God. They do not differ in the way they understand the relationship between human beings and one another. Each one of those faiths says if someone else is suffering, that is my responsibility, and that is really what binds Jews, Christians and Muslims together. We have the same kind of ethic. The ethic of responsibility. -Sir Jonathan Sacks

Over the past few years, especially since leaving Mercy Ships, I've done a lot of thinking about what the real issues in this world are. I've been disappointed in the way that many Christian resources are utilized, and what "causes" rally the most attention and money. Seems like gay marriage, school curriculum regarding evolution, and issues like that receive a very large portion of our time and energy. If you ask someone in church about gay marriage, they would probably at least know the general issue and some legislation regarding it. If you ask someone in church about Darfur, it's iffy whether or not they would even be able to tell you where Darfur is located. Things like that really sadden. I feel like we put a lot of time into "defending" the wrong thing. He never defended himself, and I don't believe He needs us to defend him, which I feel is exactly what people are trying to do when they get all worked up over gay rights and "protecting" the sanctity of marriage or evolution being taught in schools and "protecting the truth". But never did God say "protect me, defend me, look after me." However, in regards to other humans, He did say:

Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy.

So, with issues and legislation, I have to ask, who is it we are trying to defend, and do they really need defending? I would like the Christian community to take a good, hard look at that question, and see if perhaps, there isn't someone being overlooked while we are busy trying to "protect" our Protector.

In regards to Darfur, there is a lot of legislation in the works, and I wish that it was receiving as much attention as things like gay marriage legislation. On the positive side, however, the activists that are out there are making a difference. In a very, very, rare moment in US history, Clinton, Obama, and McCain issued a joint statement accusing the Sudanese government of their atrocities and warning that whoever the next President is will not ignore their actions. I firmly believe this statement was a result of activists writing letters, having rallies and protests. In politics, the pressure to please the public is so great, that if we demand something, it will not be ignored. And I want more people to demand that the people of Darfur get help. I'm not speaking merely of the US government here. I'm speaking of the entire world, and in particular, the United Nations. While talks have happened, some legislation has been signed, the actions are often slow. If the public pressure were greater, however, I think the action would be more swift. And this is a case that needs swift action. History shows, these things snowball. And Darfur is definitely rolling fast. I think it's so important to remember.

Hitler was meeting with his most powerful advisers...and they were discussing how to start the Holocaust, and one of his advisers say, "But what about the Armenian genocide?" and his answer...was "But who remembers the Armenian genocide?" - Vicken Aykazian

It was the Armenians, it was the Jews, it was the Tutsis, it is the people of Darfur, and someday, it could be your people and it could be my people. So don't forget.

One month before the terrible genocide in Rwanda, the United Nations man on the spot warned that there was a real risk of genocide and the world did nothing, and one month later, over a period of 100 days, 800,000 people were murdered. -Sir Jonathan Sacks

I think we often underestimate the power of our own humanity. 100 days, 800,000 people. That proves the power. Now imagine that on a good scale. What we do matters. It matters on a small scale, and it matters on a large scale. It matters right now. And it matters for the future.

We change the world one life at a time, one day at a time, one act at a time. There really is no other way. -Sir Jonathan Sacks

So today, let's each do our act. Let's remember our history. Let's take a good, hard look at our present. Let's say a prayer. Let's take five minutes to sign a petition, to write a letter, to tell someone else. Let's look into divestment. But let's not stay silent. Let's not ignore those who desperately need our voice and our defense.

If I have a chance to say something for my brother, I'm praying all days for you - Moheamed Dafella Ishag, (Darfur survivor speaking of his brother, who was murdered by the janjaweed).

Saturday, June 28, 2008

My Bike and Other Random Objects

This is a bad photo of my most recent purchase that I am very excited about:



I have been wanting a bike for a few months now, and have been casually browsing craigslist looking at them to see how much used bikes cost. I didn't think I'd be getting one anytime soon, because I quickly realized that used bikes still go pretty high. Anyway, I got super excited when I saw this bike because not only is it old-fashioned, which I really wanted, but even better, it was 10 bucks! At that price, I decided I couldn't pass it up. I am hoping that it will be a good investment in exercise and saving gas money. (We filled up our Passport for 65 bucks today...ouch.) Anyway, Jesse and I went down to the park by our house and I rode my bike while he rollerbladed. For once, I can actually keep up with him on the Rollerblades! We used to go a lot together in Colorado, but he would always have to go slower for me. Now with me on the bike instead of my Rollerblades, Jesse can actually go at a decent pace and not have to worry about leaving me in the dust. From our house, it's about two miles to the grocery store, and I am hoping that I can work my way up to being able to ride my bike there instead of driving to get groceries each week. It would be a piece of cake if it were flat, but it's two miles of decently steep hills. We'll see how that one goes. In the meantime, I can at least use it for the many quick runs we do right by our house, like getting a Redbox movie.

In other happy product news, I am pleased to give an update on the lion wrinkle battle. I started using Avon's Intensive A Line Treatment with the RetroActive cream, and I am now a loyal customer. It gets my official best-product-I-have-purchased-in-a-very-long-time title. Now I just hope Avon doesn't discontinue it.

My product-that-I-don't-really-want-but-I-need-anyway is a GRE study guide. I am still not sure if I want to go to grad school or not, but I think I should at least apply and see if it's even an option. Then I can make my decision. As such, I need to take the GRE relatively soon. I did some practice questions online and pretty much bombed them. Which means, I really need to study.

My on-the-search-for product is a pair of sandals. Last year on vacation, I ended up wearing my 3 dollar flip flops the whole time because the other shoes I brought gave me blisters on the back of my ankle before we even got to the park. The flip flops also gave me blisters between my toes, but at least it took a good 6 or 7 hours before making them. Anyway, due to this predicament, my feet were very sad during and after vacation. I decided this year, I need to just buck up and get a pair of decent fitting sandals that I can actually walk in for long distances without blisters, back pain, or something else that makes me whine to Jesse. You would think this would be a relatively easy thing to find. But no. I have come to the conclusion that I have extremely high maintenance feet.

For now, I am off to spend some time with my recent consuming-mass-quantities-of product: lentils. Cheap. And they make yummy tacos.

Friday, June 27, 2008

Starting the Day with a Laugh

Sometimes big issues are so serious that you just need a new take on them...

Friday, June 20, 2008

Grandpa Abe Part II

Abe's cart arrived earlier this week, and Jesse and I were very excited. We have been slowly working with Abe getting him used to it and making the adjustments so that it fits him right. Usually, it comes shipped fully assembled set to your dog's measurements, but since we got it used, the guy took it apart to ship it, and also, everything that was still together was set for his dog, so we are still figuring out how to get it right for Abe. He has been very patient as we put him in and out of it and change it around. He has gotten a ton of treats in the process, and now he equates the cart with food. As soon as we put him in it, he starts looking up and sniffing our hand, trying to find his treat. We have only played in the backyard so far because we want it to be a perfect fit before we take him on a longer walk with it. I think we got the back part right, and now we are working on the front harness part. Anyway, here's some pictures.

This is when it first arrived. Abe inspected the shipment, as he always does.


He's not too sure what to think of it...


We would hold treats out just a few feet in front of him so that he had to take a couple steps to get to them. When we first put him in it, you could tell that he thought he needed to be very still, so the treats definitely helped him to learn the concept of moving while in the cart.


I have a million captions for this photo, most of which revolve around remedial class, but I'll let you make your own:


Okay, so my intelligence level is also doubtful at times...

Monday, June 16, 2008

Yard Stuff

Just because I like flowers.














Friday, June 13, 2008

Post about N turned to randomly missing Kona...

We talked with N and his mom tonight. We e-mail and talk on the phone here and there, but it had been a while since the last time, so it was nice to get an update this evening on how they are. Sounds like they are still doing great out there. His mom sounds so much happier and less stressed. It makes me so happy for N. It's funny how you can see kids developing even when you aren't in person. Even just by hearing him on the phone, I could tell he is getting older (and I'm not talking about voice change - I'm talking about things like reasoning/thinking skills, communication skills, stuff like that.) He sounded so much more mature, and it's been less than a year since they moved! I can't imagine how he will grow and change in the next few years. He is such a bright kid, so much potential. I hope life hands him opportunities to make good on it.

Otherwise, summer is in full swing here. Lawn mowers humming, air conditioners clicking on and off, bug bites all over my legs...I love it! I don't know if Jesse and I will ever find a way to reckon our climate differences. He would be content with mountains and snow for most of the year, and I would much prefer to drip sweat and feel lethargic while eating a popsicle. I keep telling him, the big island is the only place in the world with all climate zones. =) I remember going up Mauna Kea when I lived there, and starting out in shorts and a tank top, then slowly layering up as we got higher. By the end, we were wrapped in sleeping bags, standing on snow, and watching the sunset from above the clouds. Kona was the one place that I actually liked to camp. We used to go on the weekends a lot. They have laws that no one can own beach property, so technically any beach on the island is public property, which is really awesome when you want to camp or swim. I miss all the stuff to do there, and an active lifestyle in general. Even though I was there for almost a year, I only knew Jesse for about 3 weeks of that time, so we never really got to take advantage of the hiking and camping stuff together. In fact, I don't think we even went to the beach together. The first time we got together, we were going to go snorkeling, but it was kind of a cloudy day, so we ended up going to Borders instead. And then after that, one of us was either in class or on work duty, so we would usually just walk to the sea wall in the evenings and watch the waves. Usually with a blizzard or shaved ice in hand. =) Anyway, I am determined to someday go back there with him so that we can actually see the island together. Maybe on our 10 year anniversary.... only 3 1/2 years away. Hmmm..this makes me want to go find my photo album from then, but I just realized, I think it's at my mom's house in my old bedroom closet. I have been meaning/needing to get up there and clean it out so that she doesn't have all my junk, but haven't gotten that far yet. I should do that soon...and if I find any fun pictures from back then, I will post them. I wish I had them now!